Sex Swap
| posted by Danielle SacksAs if women need another thing to be blamed for in the workplace, metrosexuals are evidently now our doing too! (For those of you unfamiliar with the breed: the term was coined by marketers to describe the emerging group of men who have embraced qualities typically associated with women).
The Strickland Group, an executive coaching shop, recently published an in-house paper titled "The Feminization of Men." The finding? "The impact of women in the workplace has had an enormous effect on how men are expected to behave as leaders," the author of the article explained in a recent Chicago Tribune article. "It's OK to admit you don't know everything, to see how much more successful you can be by using so-called 'softer' skills, ones usually associated with women."
How liberating! Men, you no longer have to be shy about bringing in those homemade cookies for office parties or hide your tears when you lose the next new business pitch. And for those of you who have yet to get in touch with your "softer-side," I'm sure The Strickland Group will soon be offering executive coaching seminars on "occupational manicures" and "how to infuse emotions into decision-making."
Have you seen evidence of metrosexuality on the rise in your workplace? Is it changing things for better or worse?



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Recent Comments | 15 Total
October 29, 2004 at 12:50pm
KelleenDanielle, PLEASE explain that third paragraph! What was your point? It sure does seem to be stereotyping and insulting to women.
I tried to research a bit before I wrote, but I'm not finding much info by follwing the links in the entry. The link to the "Feminization of Men...." goes to careerbuilder.com is that correct?
October 29, 2004 at 1:18pm
antoniocapoHi,
The "metrosexual effect" takes place slowly at my company (F100) but it is definitely catching on.
I usually care about my appereance. That had noticeable effect in my manager whom started caring more about his looks.
If you are young and entering the work force as I am, then a good dose of metrosexuality will help you stand out in a good way.
As for your comments I think they are a bit out of focus. Women are not to "blame" for something that is better for the workforce as a whole. Blame carries a lot of misconceptions about gender and oppresion.
Now I understand that we are in a male dominated society but I think that is time for women to take the post again ......
October 29, 2004 at 2:14pm
tabbyrasahUmmm, it's no big secret that women rule the world. Men are only a distraction.
October 29, 2004 at 2:15pm
AleahI'm so relieved I work in an industry where the genderf*%ked and eccentrics are readily available and accepted, because at the end of the day, all that matters is the quality of the work produced.
For those businesses outside of the artistic sphere, it seems to me that the same methodology can be applied: the quality of work produced, not the work style, physical appearance, and emotional personality, should be the focus.
For management, if you stop looking for the differences in men vs. women, in Team A vs. Team B, you are not going to notice those differences, and in the end, a better team of motivated individuals will emerge.
October 29, 2004 at 2:35pm
EmailaddressI'm glad other people will be bringing in homemade cookies. It was such a burden. Thanks for showing that men can pitch in just as much as women in the workforce!
Thanks for being so open minded. I'm going to go hide in a bathroom stall and cry tears of joy.
October 29, 2004 at 2:37pm
tabbyrasahAmen Aleah.
My problem with the metrosexual movement is that the office should not be a fashion show. I've seen entire companies go away where they put image before product. I have no problems with an office looking tidy, or even if there is some unspoken dress code (or spoken--look at the wonders things like that has done for companies such as Siebel). But the moment the office becomes something else besides a place of business--watch out. Too bad the real losers in this race are usually investors who don't know the ins and outs of such companies until it's too late.
The ones that try to define business trends by fashion movement are going to have to eat the dust of us who are actually setting the trends.
October 29, 2004 at 2:53pm
antoniocapoDiference makes competition possible. Difference is human nature. Can you image a company in which all individuals are not identified by personality glitches or life or work styles?
Can you imagine a society in which we are all equal?
An artist would stop being different and special because there is not reason why she should be...
I think that artists are the ultimate differenciators. They define cultural barriers through their art and are the flagship of ancient civilizations.
October 29, 2004 at 3:05pm
Valeria MaltoniDanielle, here we have branding at its best.
Metrosexuals? What a clever label. There are sensitive people (man and women) and there are people who are not so fuzzy. They have always existed -- today maybe it's more OK to be that way.
The epidemy of following fashion for males can be observed in Italian men -- yet if you've met any, you'll know they are not so feminine after all.
October 29, 2004 at 3:21pm
aleahAntoniocapo, Difference is great - I wouldn't argue otherwise. What I was pointing out is that differences be respected, but should not an issue of contention or rigid definition.
Further to that, great thinkers/artists throughout history created change thru their work, and not in what they were wearing or who they were dating or what their sexuality happened to be - Although these things flavor the work, it should not be the focus.
October 29, 2004 at 3:46pm
steveSince when does just being a gentleman-- friendly, considerate, inclusive etc.-- consitutute being more feminine? I've never understood why people claim these are purely female behaviors when in reality they are universal rules for how to treat fellow humans.
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